How Connected Are We?
The Marriage Connection Checkup
Three ways to connect.
One degree better.
Each spouse rates their satisfaction in three ways of connecting. Compare your colorful results, discover what matters to each of you, and explore how to make your marriage one degree better!
Your Connection Wheels
Each wheel has three equal sections. Color fills outward from the center as satisfaction increases. The more color, the greater the satisfaction in that area.
Spouse One
My satisfaction
Spouse Two
My satisfaction
I’ve got your back! Encouragement, support, communication, and cheering each other on.
Let’s do life together! Friendship, fun, teamwork, activities, and shared experiences.
I want to know you! Emotional connection, heart-to-heart conversations, affection, spiritual and physical intimacy.
Rate Your Connection
Independently choose your satisfaction in each area from 0 to 10.
0 = Not satisfied at all
10 = Completely satisfied
Reveal & Compare!
Same marriage. Two unique perspectives! Look at your two wheels together.
1. What were you thinking about when you chose those numbers?
2. What are we already doing that contributes to your satisfaction?
3. Where would you like us to experience more connection, and what would make a difference?
One Degree Better!
What could we do differently this week to raise each other’s satisfaction by just ONE point?
Brainstorm together! Think of several small changes that could make a meaningful difference.
Encourage more. Check in. Show support. Celebrate wins.
Have more fun. Try something together. Laugh. Enjoy each other.
Share more feelings. Listen. Show affection. Grow in intimacy.
What’s one change each of you would especially appreciate?
Keep it positive, specific, and doable. These are invitations to love each other better, not demands or expectations.
Small Change. Stronger Connection.
Revisit your connection wheels next week. Celebrate any progress, and keep discovering how to love each other well!
LOVE MINISTRIES