Into-Me-See
The word intimacy has often been described as “Into me, see.” While it is a play on the word, it reminds us that real intimacy grows as we allow our spouse to see what is happening inside us.
How to Connect
This encounter is a simple and enjoyable way to better understand one another’s thoughts, feelings, hopes, and needs right now.
- 1 Partner One answers each question honestly about themselves.
- 2 When finished, hand the phone to your spouse without revealing your answers.
- 3 Your spouse answers the same questions about themselves.
- 4 Together, discover what is happening in each other’s hearts today.
These questions are not about getting the right answers or proving how alike you are. Listen with curiosity, respond with kindness, and enjoy getting to know the person you love a little better.
Now Invite Your Spouse In
Your answers have been saved and hidden.
Hand the phone to your spouse and let them answer these same questions about themselves.
Some answers may be similar and others may be different. Each answer helps you better understand where your spouse is right now.
Take your time looking through each response. Notice what you share, what surprised you, and what may help you care for one another more intentionally this week.
Thanks for Taking Time to Connect.
Every day is a new opportunity to deepen your relationship and discover something new about one another.
Some of your answers may have been the same, while others were different. Neither is better. Every answer gives you another opportunity to understand, appreciate, and love your spouse more intentionally.
Stay curious.
Keep looking into one another’s hearts.
Keep Your Results
Send your answers to yourselves so you can remember what you discovered and care for one another throughout the coming week.