Intimacy grows when couples stay curious. Take turns answering the question below. Listen slowly. Ask follow-up questions. Don’t rush to fix, defend, or compare. Also, don’t just act interested; be interested (curious!)
The Curiosity Encounter
Intimacy grows when we remain interested in one another. Take turns answering each question. Listen carefully, stay curious and ask at least one follow-up question.
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Practice curiosity: Do not correct, fix, defend or rush. Try saying, “Tell me more,” “What was that like for you?” or “Why is that meaningful to you?”
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Suggested rhythm: Each spouse answers. Then ask one follow-up question before moving on.